Sunshine in my eyes

Bài này có một đợt nổi khủng khiếp ở Việt Nam do có phim Hàn Quốc gì đấy đưa vào làm soundtrack. Các bạn Stratovarious đến từ Phần Lan nên có nhiều đoạn phát âm nhịu, nghe yêu vãi.

Hồi cấp 2, mình chán chán thế nào ngồi dịch thành thơ, đọc lại vẫn thấy ưng, chỉ có đoạn cuối là không sát lắm. Từ lúc ấy đã biết mình sến. Bây giờ thì thấy các bạn Heavy Metal hay khói bụi gì thì cũng sến như nhau cả thôi.

Một bóng hình cô đơn
Giữa phố đêm vắng vẻ
Đông như hơi thở nhẹ
Lướt cùng ký ức xưa

Ký ức của ngày xưa
Ngày mang tên hạnh phúc
Ánh mặt trời thẳng đứng
Rơi trên cánh đồng xanh

Mải miết thời gian trôi
Em vẫn là em đó
Hạt bụi mờ trong gió
Ánh sao nhỏ trong đêm…

Đêm tàn, rồi ngày lên
Như gió mùa luân chuyển
Thời gian còn mải miết
Như gió mùa sớm mai…?


Long into the night

Các bạn VnRock vừa post bài này lên, lại khiến mình nhớ lại cái thời Rock Việt ngày xưa. 10 shows thì 8 shows sẽ kết thúc với Courage. Một cái kết rất đẹp, khi gần trăm cái đầu đen dúi dụi vào nhau, trăm bờ vai sát lại gần nhau để cùng đu mình theo cái giọng hát (phát âm tiếng Anh hơi chệch nhưng vẫn) vang vọng, tiếng lead (tuy bị loa làm bẹp đi gần nửa nhưng vẫn) thúc giục mạnh mẽ. Nhiệt huyết tuổi trẻ, cộng với sự ngây ngô của tuổi trẻ, có một chút Metal vào là như bước ra một bầu trời hy vọng.

Bài hát hết, cả lũ người lạ gật đầu chào nhau một cái, rồi ai về nhà nấy.

Mấy năm trước, mình cũng có những người lạ như thế trong đời. Tuần nào cũng thế, chả hẹn nhau mà cứ lên quán là gặp. Tuần nào cũng từng ấy bài mà nghe đi nghe lại vẫn hứng khởi. Xong cũng chả nói chuyện mấy, bâng quơ vài ba câu, thi thoảng cụng bia, châm thuốc, rung rinh người, xong rồi đi về. Hứng lên thì tag nhau vào mấy cái FB status như để nhớ về cái thời “tuổi trẻ” xa xưa lắm.

Thế mà xa xưa thật. Bây giờ thì đứa có vợ con, đứa vào Sài Gòn, hoặc đâu đó. Mình về Việt Nam cũng không còn lý do để liên lạc nữa.

Nhiều khi cứ nghĩ, có những người mình chơi cùng bởi trong cùng một hội, nhưng nếu chỉ có 2 đứa với nhau thì chả biết nói gì, không khí trôi qua rất vụng về. Nhưng có những người lạ khác, chả có chuyện gì để nói với nhau, nhưng ngồi lại với nhau bằng âm nhạc, thành ra như có một sợi dây gắn kết vô hình.

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Oh the Florida sky.

If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plan.

In my case, if you want to see God roll in the aisles, plan your trip to the Z in TripIt. My mini-moon in Florida Keys could have been the ultimate beach trip, with sunset rendezvous with dazzling glasses of mojito, floating among the whimsical Florida Reefs, playing pirate ghosts in shipwrecks, or parasailing with the wind.

Nah! He sent his pariah named Winter Storm Jonas.

On the day I planned to go diving in John Pennekamp State Park, all water activities, even kayaking in semi-concealed mangrove tunnels. I got really upset! I’m like a spoiled kid when things didn’t go accordingly. But this was no hollow plan. I have wanted to go to the park since I read about the underwater Christ of the Abyss statue and ship remnants that settled there. It’s a chance for me to put my PADI certification in use, and it’s different from other water sites I have snorkeled/dived in.

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John Pennekamp that day.

2 days later, we woke up at 6.30 for our tour to Dry Tortugas National Park, only to be greeted by a cautious ranger. She informed us that the catamaran was still running, but the ride would be very rocky, and snorkeling would be “out of the question”. Despite my longing to see this unique, superlative park, the kinetosis in me cried no. I knew my limit: Dramamine wouldn’t help much, and I would get too cranky and exhausted to enjoy the scenery. Plus, what’s the point of seeing a mesmerizing palette of blue without being to touch it?

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On the Seven Mile Bridge. The GoPro shook like crazy, I had to do multiple shots to get one or two almost neat-looking photos.

Still, we still had a lot of fun dashing through the Overseas Highway and exploring the Keys. It was no California’s State Route 1, but with a Mustang Convertible, the drive was still a classic. Here are some of our interest encounter along the way:

  • Python Challenge: NOT SAFE FOR GEEKS! The wildlife in Everglades National Park is being threatened by the invasion of non-native Burmese pythons, so people are participating in a removal competition. I propose captured pythons be packed and sent oversea to Asian countries, where python fat is used as a kind of alternative medicine (notably burn treatment), but apparently Everglades pythons have high levels of mercury and not recommended for consumption. (Not that Asians care)
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    Kids for scale! This is a humble 13-feet.

  • Robert is Here: a well-known fruit farm in Homestead, FL. Well, for me, it was a sanctuary. There were star fruits, canistels, rambutans, full-sized jackfruits, SUGARCANE JUICE! Sapodillas were twice the size of a regular one, and soursops were twice the prize. I particularly love how the tastes are described: pineapple cotton candy, egg custard, fruity flan… Growing up eating these tropical fruits on a daily basis, I kind of took them for granted, never thinking about how foreigner would perceive these tastes. It’s like… describing colors to blind people.
  • Big Pine Key / No Name Key: I was adamant about dropping by this tiny island to spot the endangered Key deer. We saw 4: a lonesome, mellow buck, and a group of 2 does and 1 tiny fawn. They are tiny and intrepid, but I kept my distance, with respect to their habitat.PicMonkey Collage
  • Bahia Honda State Park: some guides say this state park is passable. I’m glad I didn’t listen. Not much activity was going on the day we came (stormy stuffs), but the beach was sophisticatedly turquoise. I think it’s one of the more beautiful beaches in Florida Keys. It also gave a great view to the old Bahia Honda Bridge, and better, access to the bridge itself.
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The “here and there” view. The clouds looked like watercolor strokes.

  • The Spice & Tea Exchange Key West: a “franchise” that specializes in, well, spices and tea. I purchased a bag of Wuyi tea with relatively good quality (not on a par with my favorites Ten Ren, Harney & Sons, or McNulty though). I have higher hopes for the spices, and can’t wait to try the salmon rub made from black tea and peppercorn.
  • I almost forgot the most important thing: food! While the seafood here is so fresh you can hear fishermen singing, the execution didn’t wow us. We went to restaurants on both the widely praised and the locally recommended sides, enjoyed our meals overall, but neither of us got that euphoria in the tummy. The only memorable dish, for me, is the Asian-fusion tuna tataki, seared rare tuna and wakame salad, at Bagatelle.IMG_20160119_181949 (2)
  • And yeah, conch fritters!

For now, I think I’m done with Florida. Temporarily. Maybe I’ll be back a few years later to explore the off-beaten paths this sunshine state has to offer. But in the mean time, 2016 will be the year of lakes and mountains!

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Descending the quiet desperation

Recently I applied for an educational counselor position, and as part of the application, I had to write a “personal statement”. I almost didn’t want to follow up out of laziness, but there was a topic I wanted to write about anyway, so yeah, I did it. This year, the common application has enforced a strict 650-word-limit so my essay had to oblige to that regulation. Turn out, I’ve reached a phase where writing complete yet meaningful sentences, not to mention “conveying your thoughts and describing your growth” in under a thousand words is really, really hard.

It was fun writing this bit, though. I still feel like it misses something, but compared to my actual college essay 10 years ago, it is a big, big leap.

And it’s only “based on a true story”. I love how that phrase is just a glorified, but justified way to fabricate the truth.

The sub-zero temperature chilled my bones, to the point that I had to frequently pinch myself to assure my senses weren’t numb, as well as to stay awake because I was afraid I might get hypothermia in my sleep. I huddled with my friends to keep warm, even though it didn’t help much. I spoke gibberish to the girl next to me, and the story of how I got here, the summit of Mount Fuji, became clearer to both of us.

It started with the news that I failed the H1B lottery and must leave the US within two months. I tried to downplay my disappointment by condemning the US immigration policy for its pure dumb luck system. But I couldn’t lie to my consciousness. My job was my quintessential dream. It was where my career was headed, the goal of many classmates’, and I attained it all on my own. Now, the symbol of my self-esteem was ripped off of me, and there was nothing I could do about it.

It wasn’t the end of the world. There were easy ways out for me: a marriage to my fiancé, a doctoral program, a promising career in my homeland. But whatever decision I chose wouldn’t be a decision I made. I wanted things to happen on my own terms.

So three weeks later, there I was, on this iconic mountain. There’s a saying that people climb it for the sake of the status. That was exactly what I was looking for. I didn’t even know to whom I was proving myself. I just knew that if I had to postpone my future, it had better be for an awe-inspiring reason.

I reached the summit two hours earlier before the sunrise. It would have been a proud moment for me, had it not been for the freezing rain. Amid the hallucinations from exhaustion, sleep deprivation and the cold, I found words flowing out of my mind, unrestrained. In a disrupted and inebriated-like voice, I told the girl next to me that I had always been defined by my career, I made it the sole focus of my life. Now that I lost it, I became so desperate for recognition that I was risking my life in this strange place. Then I hit the epiphany. I wasn’t Thoreau searching for transcendence. I was just a self-pitying narcissist, disguised as an inexcusable, so-called “soul-searcher”.


Maybe it was the cold hard truth that wore me down, but my mentality gave in. I dozed off for 15 minutes when my friend woke me up and led me to the viewpoint. The furrowed clouds swept around the sky, hemmed in by a golden haze. Then, the Sun slowly ascended from the horizon, spilling its orange-hued rays over the mountain. Soon enough, it laminated the whole landscape with warmth and light. Everyone cheered and applauded, while I stood still, dumbfounded and teary-eyed. It felt oddly, yet naturally soothing to be vulnerable and inadequate in front of a wonder this monumental.

My friends and I then headed down to a nearby onsen. I must have picked up some Japanese spirit along the way, because for the first time, I didn’t feel self-conscious at all. I skinny dipped into the hot water. Nobody was peeping at anybody. We relaxed our muscles, exchanged brief pleasantries, and overlooked the Sun, which had haughtily reigned over the unassuming mountain. In the back of my mind, I knew I’d boast of this achievement on Facebook later. But at that moment, I just wanted to enjoy this scene as long as I could. It was a long overdue compensation for many sunrises and sunsets I had missed whilst working 10 hours in a city office.

Then I closed my eyes, not looking for a nap, but dreaming of what the rest of Asia would offer me in the next 12 months.

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“Even after all these years”

“Notes between the lines” is a series of blog posts in which I will share pieces of music and literature that I think resonate with each other. This post features “I Just Don’t Think I’ll Ever Get Over You” by Colin Hay and “The Bridges of Madison County” by Robert James Waller.

I discovered Colin Hay thanks to Scrubs, one of my most favorite TV series. His music, for me, is the quintessence of acoustic music: unruffled in melody, pensive in lyrics, like a piece that you improvised with your guitar while sitting on your porch in the late afternoon and indulging in reminiscence. In that moment, the rhythm becomes a narrative and the words become a tale.

That’s why it was easy to think about “The Bridges of Madison County”. I can imagine the image of Francesca, as she saw Robert walking up to her for the first time, as he departed for eternity, as she missed him incessantly and desperately the years gone by. I can imagine how she was always alone, but never lonely, as long as her thoughts were with him. And I can imagine this song serenading her longing for him, in and out of consciousness.

I never watched the movie adaptation, so I never knew how the soundtrack fits. I never revisited the book either, having grown out of the belief in “made for each other” or “love of my life” (I’m not cynical, I just think the concept of love is more than that). I think Francesca & Robert’s love was, and would be star-crossed in every way, even if she had made the irrational decision to leave. It was the wistfulness that bounded them together, and got them through. And that was what made the story, while unrealistic, spoke to many people so genuinely. We are reminded of the love that will forever change what love means to us, and when that happens, the memory becomes an everlasting part of us.

And all that’s left to do is wake up in the morning, and have a good cup of coffee (or tea, if you’re like me).

 ««It’s clear to me now that I have been moving toward you and you toward me for a long time. Though neither of us was aware of the other before we met, there was a kind of mindless certainty humming blithely along beneath our ignorance that ensured we would come together. Like two solitary birds flying the great prairies by celestial reckoning, all of these years and lifetimes we have been moving toward one another.

The road is a strange place. Shuffling along, I looked up and you were there walking walking walking walking across the grass toward my truck on an August day. In retrospect, it seems inevitable—it could not have been any other way—a case of what I call the high probability of the improbable.

So here I am walking around with another person inside of me. Though I think I put it better the day we parted when I said there is a third person we have created from the two of us. And I am stalked now by that other entity.»»

And Facebook just reminded me that 3 years ago I posted a quote from the same book. “… all the philosophic rationalizations I can conjure up do not keep me from wanting you, every day, every moment, the merciless wail of time, of time I can never spend with you, deep within my heart.”

I tended to get sentimental on August. Blame it on the summer blues.

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Travel tidbit: Breakfast at Beacon (NY)

Last weekend was my bachelorette party, so my closest girl friends in the city & I packed and headed to Beacon, NY. It is a lovely town, 90 minutes away from NYC by train. There are already some good guides on exploring Beacon, so I won’t bother with a list. This blog is just a token of a good time, and a nice break from the wedding planning (I’ll always have time for writing!)

1-Beacon is a quintessential small town.

All of us have lived in New York City for a long time, and we have gotten so used to the city life we almost forgot our roots as alumni of small liberal arts college. Beacon is a pleasant reminder of those younger years, with one Main Street on which everything is, from homemade foods and indie coffee shops to brick & mortar stores, and no trace of franchise businesses. The reminiscence is extra special for me, because just like New London (the city of my alma mater Connecticut College), Beacon’s train station and railway are right by the water, making our ride very scenic and “classic American”.

And then there are festivals named after as many crops as you can list, and on as many occasions as you can imagine. We went on corn festival, last month was strawberry festival, and I saw a sign for Native American festival this upcoming week. Fortunate enough, our visit also overlapped with the “Second Saturday”, when art galleries and special events go on until 9PM (yes, that’s a small town curfew for you), so there were a lot of exhibitions going on. Hundreds of people strolled among the hustle & bustle of talks and sales and culinary tastings. But as soon as we drifted off Main Street, the sounds faded and the lights blurred into the night, and the town went back to its tranquility.

2-The town is very couple-friendly.

Most accommodation listings in Beacon are family B&B, so finding a place spacious enough to host 7 of us was a hassle. It is easy to understand though; the town is more suitable for a day trip, and moreover, it’s not really a “bachelorette destination”. Nightlife with clubbing is a foreign idea, unless you mean a bar with live music for people to dance to. We went to Max’s on Main, where we doodled on the tables and sang along to Don’t Stop Believing (we were one expressive “Ohhh my goood this song is totally about me” from becoming the stereotype).

Fortunately, with all of us at the upper side of 20s, our definition of fun has slightly changed. Stressed with work, pregnancy and wedding planning, we just wanted to chill away and relax, the same way we’d love to do with our loved one.

That’s why Beacon was the right choice… for my kind of bachelorette party, and my kind of relationship.

3-The town is serious about their morning eats!

But then again, so are my friends and I! That is why I’m glad we decided to spend more than one day here, otherwise we wouldn’t be able to cover all the restaurants on the list. Many blogs and guides I read swear by Homespun Foods, and while we had a hearty breakfast in their lovely patio, my favorite goes to Beacon Bread Company. My Bleu Boar (crumbled bleu cheese, pulled pork, strawberry chipotle on brioche) was fantastic, sweet, creamy, soft, spicy, and grilled at the perfect level. And then there’s a cafe dedicated to bagel that I definitely will try next time.

It makes me think that no matter how suburban it is, Beacon is still partly New York at heart. Like an elderly, retired New Yorker who goes out for an early brunch at 10 o’clock.

4-Our finds.

  • Beacon Creamery: a homemade ice-cream shop on the South end of Main Street. We tried the apricot orange blossom flavor, and damn if it wasn’t the most refreshing thing I’ve ever tasted.
  • Alps Sweet Shop: my fiancé and I have made a habit of buying artisan sweets for each other, so I couldn’t pass the chance for the life of me. Have you ever heard of sunflower seeds covered in colorful chocolate? You should because just like me, you’ll be glad you did!
  • Denning’s Point State Park: a rocky trail located further South, overlooking the river. Not a pleasant bike ride because of the rocks, but I imagine it will be fun to hike here!
  • I discovered a beautiful flower called Queen Anne’s Lace that looks more like a snowflake than a snowflake flower bulb.
  • Metro-North packages: Back in college, I used to take the train from New London to visit my then-boyfriend in Providence all the time. 5 years later, I almost forgot how special it felt to travel by train. MNR has some good deals for traveling in Hudson Valley and beyond. 90 minutes seem very short when you have your friends around (and of course, a view to ponder to).

Photo credit: My friend Dieu Nguyen. The one of chocolate covered sunflower seeds is taken from

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Ramble on and around Loy Krathong

English version below.

Nếu ai đã xem Tangled thì không thể quên cảnh Rapunzel và Flynn lênh đênh trên thuyền trong khi hàng trăm nghìn chiếc đèn trời được thả lên cao. Cảm hứng cho hình ảnh này chính là lễ hội Yee Peng/Loy Krathong, được tổ chức hàng năm ở các thành phố miền Nam Thái Lan. Năm ngoái mình có may mắn được là một phần của Loy Krathong tại Chiang Mai (nơi lễ hội được tổ chức tưng bừng nhất), nghiên cứu rất nhiều nguồn, nói chuyện với một số người dân bản xứ, và nhận thấy có nhiều nhầm lẫn về các lễ hội xung quanh sự kiện này nên muốn viết lại. Để biết thêm là chính, chứ mình nghĩ có chút nhầm lẫn cũng chẳng ảnh hưởng đến việc tận hưởng vẻ đẹp của Chiang Mai.

1. Loy Krathong thực chất là gì?

Collage 1Krathong tiếng Thái nghĩa là “đèn hoa đăng” nên Loy Krathong, trước nhất và trên hết, là lễ hội đèn hoa đăng. Đây là dịp người dân cảm tạ thuỷ thần, thuỷ linh đã mang đến nguồn nước dồi dào trước khi mùa khô đến. Đèn hoa đăng được tết thành hình hoa sen, ở trên cắm hoa, nến và cây hương. Trước khi thả trôi sông/nước, mình bỏ lên đó một ít tóc để bỏ đi những phiền muộn và điều dữ trong cuộc sống.

Một hoạt động lớn khác của LK là biểu diễn xe hoa đăng. Các xe tham gia diễu hành được trang trí rất cầu kỳ, đa số có ý nghĩa Phật giáo.

Tuy nhiên, nếu đến Chiang Mai đợt Loy Krathong, mình thấy mọi người vẫn thả đèn trời là chính, chứ không hứng thú lắm với việc thả đèn hoa đăng. Quả thực thì thả đèn hoa đăng không “thích” bằng thả đèn trời vì nhiều lý do: (1) thả đèn hoa đăng khó hơn vì bờ sông khấp khểnh, nên đa số không tự thả mà xếp hàng, đợi có người ngâm mình dưới nước để đẩy cho đèn trôi, (2) đèn hoa đăng không sáng bằng đèn trời, dễ bị thổi tắt, nên không phục vụ được mục đích chụp ảnh, và (3) lý do tương tự – đèn hoa đăng chỉ trôi sát mép sông chứ không rải rác cả bầu trời được.

2. Một lễ hội đèn lồng khác.

Yee Peng Festival và Loy Krathong Festival diễn ra cùng thời điểm nên bây giờ được coi như là một. Yee Peng Festival là lễ hội “đặc trưng” của miền bắc Thái Lan, có nguồn gốc từ Vương quốc Lanna. Đủ các thể loại đèn lồng – đèn treo, đèn cầm tay, đèn lồng xoay và đèn trời – sẽ được trang trí ngoài cửa nhà và trong chùa.

3. Thế dịp nào là thả đèn trời?

Ở Chiang Mai, có 2 sự kiện mà hàng nghìn chiếc đèn trời (lom khoi) sẽ được thả đồng thời (mass release).

Lanna Kathina Ceremony là một lễ hội Phật giáo, được tổ chức bởi Giáo hội Phật giáo và các cơ quan chức năng cấp quốc gia và địa phương, diễn ra phía sau Mae Jo University. Thường thì khách sẽ phải đến rất sớm để giữ chỗ, nếu ai lười có thể thuê các tour du lịch để đưa đón từ nhà và giữ chỗ cho mình. Sau khi các nhà sư đã tụng kinh, hàng loạt chiếc đèn sẽ được thả lên trời cùng một lúc, tạo nên một cảnh tượng vô cùng thanh tao, và đẹp đầy xúc cảm.

Tuy nhiên, xét về khía cạnh tôn giáo thì mass release chỉ là một phần của lễ hội. Trọng tâm chính là lễ “trao áo cà sa” (kathin), là dịp người dân cảm tạ các nhà sư bằng cách dâng công đức (áo cà sa, tiền, thức ăn). Chiang Mai là cố đô của Vương quốc Lanna, thời cực thịnh của Phật giáo, nên có rất nhiều chùa chiền, và các nhà sư rất được coi trọng. Các ngôi chùa ở đây có kiến trúc đa dạng, không khí vừa linh thiêng vừa trầm mặc, mình không theo đạo nhưng bước vào cũng cảm thấy rất yên bình. Ở Wat Chedi Luang, khách còn có thể đến trò chuyện cùng các nhà sư về Phật giáo, văn hóa, hay bất kỳ chủ đề nào (monk chat under the sun).

Lanna Kathina Ceremony là lễ hội cộng đồng nên ai cũng có thể tham dự, nhưng hãy nhớ ăn mặc kín đáo, lịch sự để tỏ lòng tôn kính. Dịp lễ được tổ chức vào ngày rằm, còn ngày tháng chính xác thì 1 tháng trước đó mới được thông báo chính thức:

Yee Peng Lanna (Mae Jo) là một sự kiện bán vé, được tổ chức bởi một nhóm Phật giáo tư nhân tên là Duang Tawan Santiparb Foundation, không thuộc quyền quản lý của hội Phật giáo. Đây là bản sao của Lanna Kathina ở chỗ sau lễ tụng kinh là mass release đèn trời. Khác ở chỗ, sự kiện này diễn ra bằng tiếng Anh để phục vụ khách du lịch, và ngoài ra không có các sự kiện tôn giáo nào khác.

Yee Peng Lanna diễn ra khoảng 1-2 tuần sau Lanna Kathina, giá vé $100 bao gồm đưa đón và đồ ăn, số lượng người tham gia hạn chế.

4. Nên đi lúc nào?

Chiang Mai là vùng đất tôn giáo và văn hóa của Thái Lan, vậy nên nếu mục đích là đi để tìm hiểu và khám phá thì dịp nào cũng được cả. Dĩ nhiên, mass release đèn lồng là cảnh tượng nên xem một lần trong đời, nên nếu canh được đúng hôm ấy thì là chuẩn nhất.

Mình thì lỡ hẹn với Lanna Kathina, và không bào chữa được với việc bỏ $100 (5 ngày ở CM mình tiêu chưa đến mức ấy) cho một sự kiện “bản sao” nên đi vào dịp Loy Krathong. Tuy không có được những shoot ảnh thần tiên, nhưng chỉ đứng thả đèn và ngắm nhìn ánh sáng lung linh trên nền trời và sông nước cũng đã đủ cho mình một cảm giác rất lâng lâng và mơ màng. Chiang Mai còn có rất nhiều thứ để khám phá: đạp xe lang thang, thăm thú chùa chiền, ăn khao soi đến khé cổ… vậy nên nếu không xem được mass release thì mình nghĩ cũng chả có gì phải xoắn.

Công viên quốc gia Doi Inthanon, nơi có ngọn núi cao nhất Thái Lan / Doi Inthanon National Park, home to the highest mountain in Thailand.

If you remember Tangled, you must remember being intrigued by the scene in which Rapunzel & Flynn float on the river while watching hundred thousands of sky lanterns released on her birthday. That captivating moment is inspired by a festival in northern Thailand, called Loy Krathong/Yee Peng. Last year, I was fortunate to travel to Chiang Mai and be a part of it. I did a massive amount of research, talked to the natives, and found out that many people (me included), have some confusions about the festivals and events surrounding this sky-lantern release. This is a comprehensive note to clear things up (even though it doesn’t matter if you just want to enjoy the beauty of Chiang Mai).

1. Loy Krathong

Krathong means “water lantern” in Thai, thus Loy Krathong, first and foremost, revolves around water lanterns. People pay tribute and express gratitute to water spirits for the water resources by floating lanterns along water banks. The lanterns are usually in the shape of a lotus, and carry offerings (candles, incenses, flowers). You also put a small chunk of hair on it, resembling sending troubles and predicament away.

Another event that attract tourists are parades. The floats are deliberately decorated, mostly with Buddhist tributes.

But yeah, during Loy Krathong, people choose to release sky lanterns over water lanterns anyway. To be honest, it’s more fun with sky lanterns, for many reasons. (1) It’s harder to float the water lanterns. The banks often hinder their flows, so people usually queue up for a guy in the water to help send their lanterns away, (2) water lanterns are not as bright as, and more fragile than sky lanterns, so they are not up for photo-taking purposes, and (3) similarly, water lanterns only floats along side the banks, compared to the sky lanterns, which fly all over the sky.

2. The other lantern festival

Yee Peng Festival and Loy Krathong Festival are now considered one, due to the proximity in their dates. However, the latter is celebrated throughout Thailand, while the former occurs only in northern Thailand. There are all kinds of lanterns involved – hanging lanterns, hand-carried lanterns (with a long handle), revolving lanterns, and yes, sky lanterns. They are decorated in front of houses and temples, as to lure away darkness and predicament. DSC07840 (3)

3. The one we’ve all desired: mass release!

There are two events in which sky lanterns (lom khoi) are released simultaneously.

Lanna Kathina Ceremony is a Buddhist festival, administered by the Buddhist Sects and the Thailand Authority of Tourism. After a night of chanting and prayers, hundred thousands of lom khois will be released into the sky. This is an ethereal and emotion-provoking moment that everyone should experience once in a life time.

However, religiously speaking, this moment is only a part of a much more significant ceremony: “robe (kathin) offering”. Laity and people will bring donations and offerings to monks in the form of new robes, money and food. I think Buddhism in Chiang Mai is beautiful (couldn’t find a better word). The temples are diverse in architecture, and they have a hallow atmosphere that captivate even a non-religious person like me. Just strolling around the city, visiting different temples, engaging in conversations with the monks at Wat Chedi Luang gives me such peace of mind.

Meanwhile, Yee Peng Lanna (Mae Jo) is a ticketed event by a private Buddhist group named Duang Tawan Santiparb Foundation. This is a tourist’s version of Lanna Kathina the mass release occurs after the chanting and prayers, except that it is conducted in English, and there is no robe offering ceremony that day.

Yee Peng Lanna is usually 1-2 weeks after Lanna Kathina, and only a limited amount of tickets are sold at the price of $100pp, including transportation and food.

4. My verdict

Last year, I missed the public mass release. At the same time, I didn’t see myself paying $100 for a ‘faux’ event. Even though Loy Krathong didn’t give me any breathtaking shoots, just standing among the crowds, looking at the bright lights floating in the night sky was dreamy and ravishing enough for me. After all, Chiang Mai has a lot more to offer than a few minutes of beauty. I had an amazing time biking around, eating khao soi 3 times a day, discovering the live music scene… so if you can make it for the mass release event, it would be the best. But if not, honestly, don’t sweat it.

Source: TripAdvisor,

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My travel planning tools

I am by no means a travel guru, but I’ve been around enough to know a thing or two about traveling. So this post is not really a guidance – most websites I list are already popular. I just want to talk about the joy I find when planning a trip, share some useful tips, and talk a little bit more :).


Step 1. Google Flights

I love serendipity, but not spontaneity. I don’t like the idea of “just hopping on a plane/bus/train and wandering to the unknown”. As I am closer to the 30s than the 20s, I’ve learned that freedom with discipline is the best kind of freedom. Whether if you want to pull a Walden move or sunbath on an exotic island, you need to know the place to avoid getting lost, or even worse, stranded, or get in troubles with the local laws. That’s not adventurous; that’s negligent!

That is when Google Flights comes in the picture. It has a lot of analytical features that are sure to find you the best prices, such as predictions, suggestions and price display for the whole month – which you should totally take advantage of if your dates are flexible. But what kindles my love for GGF is its generous search function. If you don’t know where to go, just type in the region, even continent, and the page will show a price map, beautifully and comprehensively listed for your browsing’s convenience. Or if you are even lazier, there’s always the “I’m feeling lucky” button to take care of your unsettled mind. It gives you the freedom to choose, but keeps you grounded with your budget and goals (because who wants to wanderlust in Gary, IN). Once this first and most difficult decision is made, the rest becomes as smooth as mojito by the beach.

However, many low-cost airlines such as Southwest, Frontier and Virgin won’t show up in GGF, nor any third-party flight search engine. So you might miss out on some better deals (*might* because these airlines often have weird bag/late policy to compensate their cheap seats – so beware!). Last I checked, JetBlue and Southwest both have a similar “go anywhere” function.

+ Jetblue’s result page is just a boring list, which is a minus point for a visual person like myself, but if you are straight to the point you might like how the prices look like they are eager to slam in your face.
+ Meanwhile, Southwest’s map only shows the prices, not the destinations. Not helpful for slackers, given that you need to scroll the mouse, but it does add some extra mystery to the place in a split second, doesn’t it? I also use it to test my knowledge of US geography.
—> Edit: If you zooms in the screen the names will show, but it won’t cover the whole map. It’s a lose-lose situation.
Flight search

Google Flights, JetBlue, Southwest

Note: if you are traveling in a foreign country, try their local search engine. For example, I just searched for flights from Chengdu – Lhasa. GGF gives me $410, while eLong shows results cheaper by $30 (same date). There might be some hidden fees adding up further in the purchase, but it’s worth a try.

Step 2. Budgeting (+ Planning)

The fun is gone when visions becomes numbers, but you’ve gotta do it anyway. These days, Mint has made it way easier to keep track of your spending. It categorizes your expenses for you and exports to Excel or CVS for calculation. However, one downside of Mint is that it includes all kind of expenses – traveling, credit card bills, and any other expenses paid during your travel period, but not for traveling purposes. You might have to manually add tags or do manual calculations if you want to review your traveling expenditures.

The only smartphone app with which I’m mildly satisfied with is TripBudget, available on Google Play. It allows me to plan my expected budget AND document my actual spending, and compare them side by side, by categories. Other apps would lack either one of these. I can also add my traveling companions so you can split money later.

If you are really that picky, Google Drive is your best bet to make a comprehensive plan. It can be as exhaustive or as simple as you want, to each his own. This is my template – I used it extensively when traveling alone in China last year – not only to monitor my budget, but also to inform my parents of my whereabouts and how to get a hold of me.

My verdict: you should use Mint anyway to manage your personal finances, because traveling should be considered a part of, instead of just a period of time you disassociate from your real life. Plus, it costs you no effort. However, if your traveling budget is really strict, I think a separate app/document will keep you more focused.

Step 3. Airbnb

Accommodation is the second biggest expense, so it deserves meticulous planning and selecting. Airbnb has been my go-to site since forever, having enabled me to live in a tree house, a Victorian-style home, and with a host who has his own Wikipedia page. Saying Airbnb gives you a genuine stay sounds cliched, but it’s hard to get a slice of homemade hospitality when you stay elsewhere. Hotels and such are designed to treat you like a guest (amenities for short-term usage, unfazed attention, all-inclusive services, that smell), while accommodations like Airbnb, with people actually living there everyday, make you feel like home, or at least, like a friend crashing another friend’s house.

Airbnb is particularly fun to use while traveling in Asia, because prices! I have in my wishlist a private island ($60) and a cottage that overlooks a river with elephants ($35). How do you beat that?

Step 4. Planning

For a type-A person like myself, planning is not a chore, it’s part of the fun! So beside the Google template above, I only trust TripIt to keep track of my plan for me. What TripIt wins me over Google Docs is that it is highly automated. You can just email your reservations (flights, car, hotels, restaurants, tours) to, and they will be added to the existing plan for you. It is really a one-stop shop with ALL your information – addresses, reservation numbers, directions, additional notes, etc. in one place. It details your trip to the hour and minute so you don’t miss important deadlines (i.e. car return, check-out).

Even better, it works offline and notifies your companions when changes are made! That is my passive-aggressive way to let my unconcerned travel companion(s) know how hard-working I am.

Step 5. Research

I mostly follow travel photographers on Instagram, not only for the genuineness of the views, but also for the unlimited resources and inspirations. Particularly, after I’m settled on a destination, instead of googling _____ hidden gems to see names  of places I already knew about, I search for #location, discover photographers (in loosest terms) based in that area, and follow them for lesser-known attractions, food reviews, and local spots such as bookstores, coffee houses, tea rooms, bakeries. I was never disappointed.

Similarly, a “_____ blog” search term (no quotation marks) might lead you to local bloggers with more unique, authentic contents than any travel guide.

Step 6. Journaling

my journal

These are pages from my journal!

I’m old-school when it comes to writing, so I keep a paper journal with me. Of course, it helps that my journal is pensively beautiful. But to be honest, most of my thoughts came to me while I’m actually on the road, and since I can’t read or write on a moving vehicle, I resort to typing my thoughts on a phone, then cursively transferring them to the journal later – to avoid mistakes, scribbles and redundant sentences (again, type-A personality).

Evernote has topped almost every list, but my biggest pet peeve is that the offline access is not free. So the next best thing is Google Keep, a built-in feature for my Android phone. Granted, it doesn’t organize well like Evernote, but you can revisit and update your notes anytime and anywhere. Plus, I actually like that I can rearrange them to my liking.

My verdict: Evernote is better for your multi-purpose note-taking, but I think Keep works perfectly if you just want to jot things down quickly.

So now, where should my nest destination be? (I’m dreaming of Ireland)

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Travel tidbit: Charleston, SC

The past 2 years, my fiancé (then boyfriend) and I have started to explore more of the US. Nothing extreme like a nomadic western road trip; our destinations are just a little off the crowded path. There are definitely some big boys out there I still want to see, like San Antonio or San Francisco (for the nth time). But we have been so domesticated that we prefer chills over thrills. And that means being in a city with essentially not much to do, but many to see (and of course, eat).

On this Fourth of July, there is no better place for a reminiscence than Charleston. These days, it pains me when I googled the city, and the top results are inundated with the recent tragic news. But I think Charleston has been resilient the way it is – with dignity and manner. And I’d like to think Southern pride should be something like that, and need not to be expressed through a parade, or any physical object.

“I want peace. I want to see if somewhere there isn’t something left in life of charm and grace.” – Rhett Butler


The picture on the right was a tree trunk at the Audubon Center at the Francis Beidler Forest. It resembles a sheltering mother, don’t you think?

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